Anonymous said: I know I'm a cool and interesting person worth being friends with, but I'm cripplingly shy and I've slowly lost all my friends bc I'm not one to chase people down if they drift away into their own world. I haven't made a single friend in my four years at college and my family doesn't talk to me. The only person keeping me from slipping back into the depression I've finally been crawling out of lives an hour away. I'm so lonely and it's really hard to push forward when I have nothing to lean on.
I feel ya. I’m the same way! I don’t make friends easy, because I’m quiet and keep to myself. I’m not even sure how to make friends. Sometimes I’ll go to bars alone or even out to eat by myself, a lot actually hahaha, and people will randomly start conversations… The last friend I met… Hmm, at work. So maybe at school just start making conversation with people around you. I mean, you gotta open up a little if you’re wanting to make new friends . It’s hard !
Anonymous said: I'm 21 years old and I don't know what the fuck I want career wise or relationship wise. Hell, I'm not even sure if I know exactly who I am yet and it's scary. Have you ever felt this and if so how did you deal with it?
Welcome to your 20s! Isn’t it grand ?! So here’s the deal. We put wayyyyy too much pressure on ourselves to have everything figured out by our 20s and realistically , it’s not going to happen. If anything you grow and change the most in your twenties. Me at 21 is a completely different person than I am today,.. Like, completely. What I want for myself, a partner, career, blah.blah blah. Don’t stress. But try not to be too dumb. Nobody knows what they’re doing, trust me on that. It’ll start to piece together as time goes on and you get put into different situations. I’m not saying I know what I’m doing.. I’m about to be 26 and ffreaking out because I still don’t know what in the world I’m doing … But for the most part.. I got the partying out of my system, the lame boys, bad friends, you’ll meet good friends along the way, you start to learn from your mistakes, like waking up in jail ! Yeah, you’ll learn from that… Etc… Don’t beat yourself up over it. You’ll be okay.
Anonymous said: Will you still be in cosmetics? Hope so
Yes I am
"I want to be your favorite place to go when you’ve had a bad day or a good day."
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Anonymous said: How could you normally tell another person has interest in you?
Pfffft… I don’t know. They make an effort to see you, talk to you. If they make no effort, they’re probably not into you